August 30, 2018

Faithful uphold the quiet tradition of lighting candles in churches

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By Emily Benson, Catholic News Service

 

WESTMERE, N.Y. (CNS) — Linda Brown approached the candle stand at her parish, Christ the King in Westmere. She dropped a donation in the collection box and lit two candles.

Her husband, Ed, stood beside her as she bowed her head and said a silent prayer. He explained that the two candles were for his wife’s mother, who recently passed away, and their son Jason, whom they also lost.

Ed Brown told The Evangelist, newspaper of the Diocese of Albany, New York, that being able to light a candle says “we still remember” loved ones who have passed from this life to the next. Linda Brown agreed that the candle stand, a new feature at Christ the King that had been requested by parishioners, has been helpful to her.

“I think it’s comforting,” she explained.

The act of lighting candles is a quiet but ever-present tradition in the Catholic Church and beyond. Candles appear at makeshift memorials after a tragedy and at official memorials when Catholics gather to pray. Candles are used at every Mass; at the Easter Vigil each year, a special candle is lit from a new fire and its light passed to individual candles held by parishioners.

Candle stands are often tucked away in the corners of churches, but they make an important impact on the faith of many parishioners.

“Candles have a special place in our faith journey,” said Lou Ann Cleary, liturgy and music ministry director at Christ the King. “When I was a kid, I remember going and lighting a candle with my mom.”

The candle stand at Christ the King was recently added. People can light a two-hour candle for $1. A sign over the stand reads, “Lighting a candle can symbolize the remembering of a loved one or a petition of prayer we make to God. We ask the saints to pray with us and for us during our most dire need. The light of the candle prolongs our prayer beyond our presence in church and shows our desire to remain in God’s presence as we go about our day.”

Father James Fitzmaurice, pastor at Christ the King, said parishioners had asked about getting a candle stand for quite some time.

Candle lighting is “just kind of a tradition,” he said. “People would think of someone, an individual, as they lit a candle; or they say, ‘Oh, I’ll light a candle for you,’ so it’s for the living and deceased.”

Visitors also partake in the tradition. Cleary recalled that, when her son and his wife visited Christ the King for the first time, her daughter-in-law immediately asked whether there were candles available to light.

“What we remember about church is that you can go in and light a candle,” Cleary said.

At St. Mary Parish in Albany, many parishioners and guests light candles to remember lost loved ones or connect with God. A parishioner of Blessed Sacrament Church in Albany said she has lit many candles at St. Mary over the years: “It could be for a number of reasons — just to honor the blessed mother or Lord, or for my family.”

Candle lighting helps her, she said: “Oh my gosh, yes! I can’t live in a world without God’s graces.”

Joe Krivanek visits St. Mary Church on his lunch hour while working in downtown Albany. He lights a candle at the church about once every week.

“I just feel that it’s something to do” in memory of family and loved ones, he said.

Leo Wang of the Cathedral of the Immaculate Conception in Albany, also was lighting a candle at St. Mary Church on a recent afternoon. He said he does so every time he stops by the church.

“It is almost always for my family,” he told The Evangelist. The candle “is here when I’m not. I like to visit churches, but when I leave, it’s something here.”

Lighting a candle, Wang added, “is like signing a guest book” at a parish: though no else will know he lit a particular one, God knows he was there.

Benson is a staff writer for The Evangelist, newspaper of the Diocese of Albany.